a BIG FAT DOSE of that super nasty guilt inducing shame producing medicine we like to term "PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY".
Yeah - anyone remember THAT one? Probably about as forgotten as those (yummy) orange baby aspirin some of us used to take (ahem...some born before say 1980?).
BUT it is by far the best known cure for hubris, narcissism, unethical & immoral behavior, and just really bad decision-making in Leadership today!
Anyway, I'm all about it. It's not only time - it's waaaaaay past time. Quite frankly, I am a little tired of the Image Management Leadership Model .
Instead of focusing on the followers' perceptions or definitions of what leadership IS - which in effect is simply doing the market research to produce a 'product' ; i.e. what others admire and conforming to that image as a leader - how about we try something new:
FIGURE OUT WHO YOU ARE AND LEAD FROM THERE
Results:
- Your leadership will be more than the latest, greatest, New & Improved "Product" (which by the way... has a definite 'life cycle'...can't last forever - Marketing 101)
- You can sleep at night because you aren't lying there wondering if you were indeed 'everything to everyone' during the course of the day;
- You will be believable because your leadership won't appear more like a modern-day colorized version of Dr. Jekyll / Mr (or Mrs) Hyde;
- You will be able to learn ... from success AND from failure AND from others! (just so you know - that's how those who are truly 'great' got that way ;)
Love it! Love Leadership Secrets of Saint Paul...have you read any of Laura Beth Jones? Jesus Life Coach? If you havent you would love it. 100% responsibility..one our core beliefs! Looking forward to following!
ReplyDeleteI've read the Jesus, CEO, and I am thinking one other ... but not the Jesus, Life Coach. Thanks for the tip. And you're absolutely right: 100% responsibility!! Anything less is 'just plain chicken' *smile*
ReplyDeleteGlad you're 'following'; I look forward to your input! :)